Wearing Lolita For Me

09 Dec 2025 - strawberryjam

I'm caring less and less about conventions when it comes to lolita...

As I shared it was a difficult year for me and I lost a lot of friends. I think being with myself helped relieve some hidden pressure I had to wear lolita in a more cookie cutter way.

One of my favorite purchases this year were these JW Pei shoes. I love how they are casual, but work well enough with lolita... they're super comfortable and I can easily go all day walking 10,000+ steps a day in them. In fact, I even hiked in them!

In this picture I also have all my keychains on my Hello Kitty purse too hehe. I think such "cute" things are not really classic lolita, but I don't care.

Maybe I get a pass because cute keychains are the trend lately, but I _started_ before that hmphmphmphmphmphmphmp~~ I'd like to think that anyways :sweat_smile:

Recently I've come to like knee high socks in lolita too ^^ It's kinda faux pas to show your knees in lolita.. but I think it's adorable ^^

I'm only 5'2", but somehow my knees end up showing a lot? Oh well.. I like it ^^

I also recently completed the above blazer and skirt set by Innocent World. But to my astonishment, the blazer and skirt don't completely match in color which is a little sucky. But honestly, another thing I don't care about is things matching in color super well. It's just too tiresome wasting money like that finding things to match things so well.

It feels ultra consumerist. I previously really wanted some lolita things.. but I have some sort of (inferior) versions of them and I should try to just be happy with that.. It's hard because I've collected lolita for over 10 years. I don't see myself downsizing or selling soon.. Still, one doesn't need so much. I feel like I should set some rules around what I buy going forward :sweat: :sweat: I'll have to think about that~ I really want to focus on sewing and only making purchases for that ^^

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